One thing I found quite interesting was working on my sexual self image I bought and wore - not all the time obviously - was crotchless panties.

I had this very asexual idea of about how my sexual side was like "Elvis let it be, keep that Pelvis away from me!"

Now the thing with them is the contridictions involved in preserving my digity while at the same time allowing free access to my sexual organs.

I found they helped me develop a strong sense of seeing myself as a sexual and to enjoy that 'on fire' feeling